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L'invitée de Steven K · Steven K

Dare, but not any which way: clear eyed daring

Why throw yourself out of a perfectly working aircraft? In April 2024, on his show L'invitée de Steven K, the host welcomes Domitille Kiger for a discovery conversation. She takes apart a few received ideas about freefall and gives simple advice on the art of daring: honestly.

Published Apr 6, 2024 Hosted by Steven K Format video Language French

Some conversations are not after a management lesson, they are after understanding. This is one of them. Steven K likes paths that step out of the ordinary, and he lets Domitille Kiger tell hers: where the wish to fly comes from, what freefall really feels like, and what it takes to turn a dream into a discipline. Running underneath, an idea that feeds her whole keynote “De l'Audace”: daring has nothing to do with recklessness.

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L'invitée de Steven K · Domitille Kiger

A discovery conversation

The starting point is a childhood passion. At twelve, a horse rider, Domitille reckons she has mastered the earth element and wants to try something in the water and in the sky. It will be diving and skydiving. She will have to wait until fifteen for her first jump, an immediate infatuation that would become an international freefly career, the artistic discipline practiced in teams of three and scored on the precision of the figures.

Freefall is not what you think

Domitille takes the time to undo the received ideas. No, freefall does not give you the rollercoaster feeling, that stomach rising into your throat. You float more as if weightless, carried by air that turns dense, almost solid. In the wind tunnel, those big fans blowing from the bottom up, you reproduce exactly the conditions of flight, and you can repeat short slots at will. Behind the spectacle, there is technique, repetition and teamwork, not a chase for a thrill.

That reframing matters, because it says something about her relationship to risk. The daring she talks about is not the intoxication of danger, it is a mastered, prepared, rehearsed practice. The same distinction she carries on stage when she separates the risks that destroy from the ones that make you progress.

Dare, but be honest about the work

Asked what message she would give young people who want to make their dreams real, she answers first to dare, then corrects herself right away: that is easy to say, much harder to do. Whatever the field, sporting, artistic or professional, it will take a lot of work. The advice she considers most useful is therefore not to dare at all costs, but to be honest with yourself about what you can genuinely see yourself putting that work into.

That is where her work today meets her sport: mental preparation. Visualization, which she has dug into all the way to its scientific dimension, helps her prepare a flight of a few dozen seconds that she cannot afford to miss. A plain tool, transferable well beyond the sky, to turn apprehension into focus.

Daring is easy to say, and much harder to do.
What to take from it
  • Daring without recklessness: preparation, precision, method.
  • Clear eyed advice for going for it: being honest with yourself about the work you are willing to put in.
  • Visualization as a concrete tool of mental preparation, transferable beyond sport.
  • Collective performance that is decided first in each person's precision.
What does Domitille Kiger talk about in this episode?
Her passion for flight born in childhood, what freefall really is, the role of mental preparation, and one piece of advice about daring: dare, while being honest with yourself about the work it takes.
Is skydiving about thrill seeking?
Domitille takes apart exactly that received idea. Freefall is closer to weightlessness than to a rollercoaster, and elite practice is a matter of technique, repetition and teamwork, not of chasing a thrill.
How does it connect to the keynote De l'Audace?
The episode shows a mastered rather than impulsive daring: prepared, honest about the work, able to tell the risks that destroy from the risks that propel. It is the material of the keynote.
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De l'Audace

Performing together by telling the risks that destroy from the risks that propel.